Why do dogs like to cuddle?

Updated 20/12/24

There’s nothing better than a cuddle with a dog, right? But how do you know if they’re enjoying it as much as you are? Let’s find out how to read the signs your pup’s a bonafide cuddle bug, and when it’s time to leave them alone as we answer the question “Why do dogs like to cuddle?”.

Key takeaways

• Always watch your dog’s body language to gauge how they feel about being cuddled.
• For many dogs, cuddling is their way of showing love and affection.
• Not all dogs are fond of cuddles though – if they’re showing signs of discomfort, it’s time to take a step back.

Do dogs like to cuddle?

For many dogs, cuddling up next to their loved ones is the ultimate display of affection. But not every pup is a natural-born cuddler, and some prefer to keep a little distance. Whether your dog loves snuggling or is more on the independent side may depend on several factors, including:

• Their background: Dogs raised with lots of affection tend to enjoy snuggles more than those who may not be used to close contact.
• Breed: Some breeds, especially lap dogs, are famous for their love of cuddling. However, plenty of large breeds also love dog cuddles, even if they don't quite fit on your lap!
• Mood and environment: A dog’s mood, health, or even the temperature of the room can affect their interest in cuddling. A cuddle might be the last thing on their mind if they’re feeling too warm or need some space.

Why do dogs like to cuddle?

So, why do dogs want to cuddle up with us? From feeling safe to socializing, here’s why your pup might be sneaking in for a snuggle:

To show love and affection

Dogs crave physical contact with those they love and trust, and curling up next to you might be their way of showing just how much they adore you.

It feels good

Dog cuddling releases oxytocin, the magical “love hormone” that brings feelings of happiness and comfort. 

It’s a social instinct

In the wild, dogs cuddle together for comfort and companionship, so it’s natural for them to feel bonded through touch.

To stay warm

Snuggling up next to you means they can share some of your body heat, which is especially welcome on cold days!

For security

If your furry friend seeks out snuggles during thunderstorms or fireworks, they’re probably looking for reassurance. Gently comfort them and make them feel safe without reinforcing their fears.

Do dogs like cuddles? Here’s how to tell

Since every dog is different, it’s important to tune in to their signs and signals. Here are a few tips for reading whether your dog likes to cuddle:

Let them make the first move

Dogs who enjoy being cuddled often initiate it, nudging closer to you or hanging around in hopes of a snuggle. Climbing onto your lap whether they’re big or small is a sign they’re a snuggler!

Understand dog body language

Happy, relaxed body language like this means they’re more likely to want a cuddle:

• Wagging tail 
• Soft eye contact
• Rolling over or leaning into you
• Approaching with a loose, relaxed posture
• Relaxed facial muscles

On the flip side, signs they’re not in the mood may include:

• Looking away from you and showing the whites of their eyes (‘whale eye’)
• Excessive yawning or licking their lips
• Growling or baring teeth
• Stiff, tense posture
• Ears pinned back
• Keeping their distance, or trying to lean away from you

Check back in while you cuddle

Even if your dog initially welcomes your cuddles, watch for signs they’re still enjoying it. A content dog may press into you or melt as their muscles relax, but if they start to stiffen or pull away, it’s best to give them some space.

Other ways to bond with your dog

For dogs who aren’t too keen on cuddling, there are plenty of other ways to build your bond. Training, exercise, playtime, and simply hanging out together can create a strong connection without the need for snuggles.

Considerations for pet sitters

When you’re caring for someone else’s dog, remember that not all pups feel instantly comfortable cuddling. Here’s how dog sitters can show affection while respecting each dog's boundaries:

• Build trust first: Allow the dog to come to you. If they seem interested in contact, pet them gently rather than going straight in for a cuddle.
• Observe their cues: Dogs show comfort in different ways. Respect their signals and let them approach if they’re ready for closer contact.
• Offer alternative bonding: Walks, gentle playtime, and calm presence can be just as comforting as a cuddle for many dogs.

Meet our veterinary expert, Rebecca

This article has been checked by veterinarian Rebecca MacMillan, BVetMed MRCVS. Rebecca is a companion animal vet who has always had a passion for writing and client communication. Since her graduation from the Royal Veterinary college in 2009 she has gained a wealth of experience in first opinion small animal practice, in both clinical and managerial roles. She currently works in the South West and deals with a variety of routine and emergency appointments, but particularly enjoys medicine cases. Outside of work and writing, she enjoys spending time with her family, including her bouncy flat coated retriever George!