There’s nothing better than a cuddle with a dog, right? But how do you know if they’re enjoying it as much as you are? Let’s find out how to read the signs your pup’s a bonafide cuddle bug, and when it’s time to leave them alone as we answer the question “Why do dogs like to cuddle?”.
Key takeaways
- Always watch your dog’s body language to gauge how they feel about being cuddled.
- For many dogs, cuddling is their way of showing love and affection.
- Not all dogs are fond of cuddles though – if they’re showing signs of discomfort, it’s time to take a step back.
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Do dogs like to cuddle?
For many dogs, cuddling up next to their loved ones is the ultimate display of affection. But not every pup is a natural-born cuddler, and some prefer to keep a little distance. Whether your dog loves snuggling or is more on the independent side may depend on several factors, including:
- Their background: Dogs raised with lots of affection tend to enjoy snuggles more than those who may not be used to close contact.
- Breed: Some breeds, especially lap dogs, are famous for their love of cuddling. However, plenty of large breeds also love dog cuddles, even if they don't quite fit on your lap!
- Mood and environment: A dog’s mood, health, or even the temperature of the room can affect their interest in cuddling. A cuddle might be the last thing on their mind if they’re feeling warm or need some space.
Why do dogs like to cuddle?
So, why do dogs want to cuddle up with us? From feeling safe to socializing, here’s why your pup might be sneaking in for a snuggle:
To show love and affection
Dogs crave physical contact with those they love and trust, and curling up next to you might be their way of showing just how much they adore you.
It feels good
Dog cuddling releases oxytocin, the magical “love hormone” that brings feelings of happiness and comfort.
It’s a social instinct
In the wild, dogs cuddle together for comfort and companionship, so it’s natural for them to feel bonded through touch.
To stay warm
Snuggling up next to you means they can share some of your body heat, which is especially welcome on cold days!
For security
If your furry friend seeks out snuggles during thunderstorms or fireworks, they’re probably looking for reassurance. Comfort them and make them feel safe without reinforcing their fears.
Do dogs like cuddles? Here’s how to tell
Since every dog is different, it’s important to tune in to their signs and signals. Here are a few tips for reading whether your dog likes to cuddle:
Let them make the first move
Dogs who enjoy being cuddled often initiate it, nudging closer to you or hanging around in hopes of a snuggle. Climbing onto your lap whether they’re big or small is a sign they’re a snuggller!
Understand dog body language
Happy, relaxed body language like this means they’re more likely to want a cuddle:
- Wagging tail
- Soft eye contact
- Rolling over or leaning into you
- Approaching with a loose, relaxed posture
- Relaxed facial muscles
On the flip side, signs they’re not in the mood may include:
- Growling or baring teeth
- Stiff, tense posture
- Ears pinned back
- Keeping their distance
Check back in while you cuddle
Even if your dog initially welcomes your cuddles, watch for signs they’re still enjoying it. A content dog may press into you or melt as their muscles relax, but if they start to stiffen or pull away, it’s best to give them some space.
Other ways to bond with your dog
For dogs who aren’t too keen on cuddling, there are plenty of other ways to build your bond. Training, exercise, playtime, and simply hanging out together can create a strong connection without the need for snuggles.
Considerations for pet sitters
When you’re caring for someone else’s dog, remember that not all pups feel instantly comfortable cuddling. Here’s how dog sitters can show affection while respecting each dog's boundaries:
- Build trust first: Allow the dog to come to you. If they seem interested in contact, pet them gently rather than going straight in for a cuddle.
- Observe their cues: Dogs show comfort in different ways. Respect their signals and let them approach if they’re ready for closer contact.
- Offer alternative bonding: Walks, gentle playtime, and calm presence can be just as comforting as a cuddle for many dogs.