10 unmistakable signs your dog misses you

Updated 14 Aug 2024

Being greeted at the door with a whirlwind of wiggles, wagging tails, and a disapproving look that says “Where on earth have you been?” is a scenario almost every dog parent experiences on a daily (if not hourly) basis. You’ve probably got an inkling your furry friend’s trying to tell you something, so we’re here to answer the question “Do dogs miss people?” and (spoiler alert) take a look at the ten most common signs your dog misses you. 

Do dogs miss their owners?

Do we head home early with the excuse that “Fido will be wondering where we’ve got to”, or is it really that we’ve spent too long away from our beloved best buddy? You might miss hanging out with your furry friend, but do dogs get depressed when their owner is away? 

The answer is yes, dogs miss their owners when they’re gone! A study published in Psychology Today found that the longer the dog was left, the more they missed their owners (as demonstrated by the intensity of the greeting when owners returned home). So if dogs miss their owners, how do you know your four-pawed pal’s missing you? 

10 signs your dog misses you

1. They're down in the dumps

Dogs can be the life and soul of the party, but they’re also not afraid to show when they’re feeling a little down. If they’re missing you, they might mope around the place with sad, puppy-dog eyes that are enough to pull on anyone’s heartstrings. That calls for cuddles, snuggles and a well-deserved dog massage!

2. Sitting in front of the door or window

Your dog might sit firmly in front of the door or window, staring intensely in the hope of catching the first sight of you as you return home. 

3. Sleeping on your (most used) belongings

Wondering “Why does my dog lay on my clothes?”? Our furry friends find comfort in things that smell of those they’re missing, which might include dirty laundry and bedding (they’re not fussy). 

4. Destructive behavior

Boredom and separation anxiety can make dogs go into destructive mode. This is always a worry because it not only results in damage to your home but also poses a danger to dogs, as they can be at risk of ingesting something nasty or injuring themselves in the process.

5. Escaping

Houdini hounds might try to break out of their home in search of you. The same can happen while out on walks with other family members, friends, or pet sitters, so it’s a good idea to warn people if your furry friend is an escape risk! 

6. Whining when you leave

Your pooch pal might start whining or pacing around the room as you prepare for your departure. Packing your bag, putting on your coat, and reaching for your keys can all cause your dog to vocalize their displeasure - they’re missing you before you’ve even gone! 

7. Ignoring you

Giving you a taste of your own medicine is your pup’s way of punishing you for leaving him all alone. Your furry friend might be suddenly very busy chewing a favorite toy or licking their paws as a coping mechanism.

8. Freaking out when you get home

There’s nothing better than being welcomed through the door by your fur baby, who is totally over the moon you’re home! Your dog might bring you a welcome gift and will often be so overcome by excitement that you can’t even get a cuddle in! 

9. Shadowing you 

Pups that follow their owners everywhere (known as velcro dogs) often struggle to be separated from their loved ones. It’s super cute your furry friend likes being by your side at all times, but no one wants to be guilt-tripped every time they close the bathroom door!

10. Going on hunger strike

Dogs can lose their appetites when they’re feeling down, and anxiety and depression can cause them to turn their nose up at their food. 

It’s important to note that many of these dog missing owner symptoms are also signs of separation anxiety. Pay particular attention to excessive or repetitive behavior, self-harm (excessive paw licking or tail biting), and anxious breathing or panting. If you suspect your pooch pal is suffering from separation anxiety, speak to your vet or a certified animal behaviorist about how you can help them. 

What can you do to help?

• Ensure your dog gets lots of exercise before you go out. 
• Make sure they’re comfortable and they have everything they need. Set up a cozy place to sleep and leave them with enough food and fresh water.  
• Give your pup something that smells of you - dirty laundry is perfect! 
• Play Dog TV or calming music to help distract them from any triggering sounds. 
• Keep them busy with interactive toys and treats.
• Don’t make a fuss when you leave.

It’s clear our four-pawed pals don’t love it when we’re not around, which is why it’s so important to get a trusted pet sitter to take care of them when you’re away. We know no one can replace you, but our dog sitters give your precious pets all the love and attention they’re used to so that you can enjoy your time away and come home to a happy pup! Find out more about how it all works here.

Meet our veterinary expert, Hannah

This article has been checked by veterinarian Dr Hannah Godfrey BVetMed MRCV.

Hannah graduated from the Royal Veterinary College in 2011 and worked in mixed practice for a few years before focusing on small animal work. Clinically, she worked in a busy, multi-center hospital practice until 2018, where she underwent training in advanced canine and feline dentistry and began working towards a Certificate in Advanced Veterinary Practice. She then moved to a local independent practice to care for the pets nearby, allowing more time to focus on other career avenues, which include writing for a diverse range of pet websites, vet practices, drug companies, journals, and veterinary educators. 

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